The first handcuffs: Which restraints are the best for beginners?
If you are new to restraints and bondage games, you should buy plush handcuffs to start with, as they do not cut into the wearer or the person being restrained and hold them securely in place without causing pain. It is also a good idea to start with handcuffs that have a safety lever so that they can be opened quickly without a key in an emergency. Advanced users also like to use restraints without a safety lever so that only the dominant partner has the opportunity to free the restrained person, but you should always keep the keys close by.
What exactly you do with the handcuffs is entirely up to your imagination: do you tie your partner to the bed, to a chair or do you tie their hands behind their back? - Handcuffs are versatile in the bedroom and offer countless possibilities to let your imagination run wild.
Which handcuffs are available and which are right for me?
It is important to note that not all handcuffs are the same, and there are also big differences between the individual models. When buying, you should make sure that the size of the cuffs can be adjusted to ensure that they are comfortable and secure to wear. In addition to plush handcuffs, there are of course also metal handcuffs, but it is better not to fasten them too tightly. Here again, there are differences as to whether they are connected by a chain or a joint, which further restricts the handcuffed person and makes them even more helpless. Which handcuffs you use or whether you even opt for a leather or plastic model is entirely up to you, you can also combine different types and styles of handcuffs in the bondage game.
Talk to your partner about the bondage
If you would like to make your partner a little more helpless with restraints or perhaps be tied up yourself, then you should always talk to your partner about the fantasy beforehand and also show understanding when your partner opens up to you. Bondage games are not only a hot addition to the bedroom, but also demand a high level of trust and responsibility, as the person being tied up literally gives up control. Also make sure you have a safeword: a term that means the game ends immediately and the handcuffs are removed.